Unavailable vs. Available Dating

Many of us fall into either one of these categories. Here are some signs that will help you figure out which one best suits you.

Serial Dating – A serial dater can have multiple ‘one-time’ dates and will probably find something wrong with 9 out of 10 of them.  This person is emotionally unavailable. An available dater will take the time to get to know his/her date and may even grant them a second or third date before deciding that person may not be suitable for them.

Workaholic – This individual is always almost working when asked out on a date. There may be various reasons for this. Perhaps they have been hurt in their past and they just don’t want to be bothered with putting forth the effort to search for that special someone. This individual will also fill their spare time with work.

The Wall – This is the structure that is immediately erected when you meet someone that you may like, but you are afraid to fall in love and perhaps get your heart broken. Sometimes you may even reject him/her before they reject you. You are emotionally unavailable for dating.